I have decided to start a new thread as my H has now moved in with OW full time.
Two Wednesdays ago I set boundaries about OW and moving his bikes and tools from the garage. He was shocked and tearful. I also asked if he would come to S counselling session which he agreed without hesitation and infact reminded me 4 days later about it! Previously would have never entertained it at all.
He remains depressed and I still see his 'children' from time to time. Last Saturday we saw the 13 year old. Loved playing with gadgets and wouldn't give in until he could get his phone to do what he wanted. He was then very proud of himself. He also tried cleaning up a mess in the kitchen and got into a bigger mess trying. Went with my S13 to see a film and when H was saying how good it was it was like talking to my S about it.
Anyway I have a question to ease my confusion.
I believe H moved in with OW about 22nd March 10. Since then he has increased his visits home, talking to the kids a lot more, ringing me to chat lasting 7 minutes and 4 minutes, has contacted me everyday this week via text,was determined to fetch D from the airport despite me taking the day off to do it. Finally his car broke down yesterday and he has had it towed here for him to come and mend. He says he is coming Good Friday.He has also given me some money towards D insurance for her car without me asking.
Any insight would be greatly appreciated as I thought we would be seeing him less now they are living together. One point the children refused to meet her.
