Maybe I am a mind reader because I said almost what he told you!! You need to focus on the here and now for now. You can't rebuild when you are constantly knocking the blocks down(and with you I mean anyone not you specifically).
You are the emotional one(Pieces), he not nearly and trys to deal with the logic like most men. He doesn't understand why these little things hurt. He doesn't understand why excluding some information that may hurt you is lying. He lives on an earthquake fault and never knows what is going to set the ground to quake. He does NOT feel secure with you because of these out of the blue emotional outbursts(as he perceives them).
Step back for now, put it in a box and ask each other how you each want your future to be. Then go out an build it. The items in the box are too fragile and you have to get that if you want this to move ahead.
You know I adore you. Be mad at ME if you want.
kat
PS yes you deal with the box when you are both more secure. 1 thing at a time and not all at once.
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
