Flowmom, I agree with your wise insight. I would just like to add the caveat that this martial discourse has been going on for YEARS! Kalni has put forth huge amounts of effort and her husband keeps throwing up road blocks IMO...
Kalni, I know you are wise. How do you see the future playing out? Do you see change coming from this man? I mean you need him to change, right? Or will you wait and wait and try harder and harder. Only for it to be put back on you that you did not do enough in some way to make him feel "comfortable" or "ready to have sex" etc.
Again, I know I have a contentious view and do not want to add firewood to the fire.
So if my opinions are hindering I will respectfully shut up
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
