4luv, thank you that means a lot to me. I know no matter what I say to him, he is going to act this way. I'm finally ready to move on with the D. He has gone to far in my opionion, and I know one day he will regret all of this. If the man I married ever comes back, and I'm not already with someone else, then maybe. But I'm no longer going to think like that, I'm going forward like we will never be together again. Like my therapist told me last night, I deserve to have someone want to be with me.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10