Into my arms... #70

[flowmom]

(((Kalni)))

I hope your daughter feels better soon. And it must be so hard to see your father go through that. It must be on your mind a lot.

Your M is in quite a dilemmma. You need honesty and disclosure to trust and open yourself in the M. And your H needs to feel that everything is OK in your M before he discloses. You both want and need emotional safety here...you have that in common.

FWIW, honesty is very important to me and I don't have a lot of sympathy for excuses that people find to avoid telling the truth. Your H wants to be in control of the information because he wants to manage your reactions.

Kalni, I hope that you can avoid taking action for a while. It's easy to walk away...that option is always there for you. But repairing the damage from impulsive actions is not so easy. I think you owe it to yourself to act from a calm, grounded place...not in reactive mode.

My thoughts are with you.