hey mb28,

this latest thing with your husband has NOTHING to do with you! It has EVERYTHING to do with him trying to make his life comfortable. Don't think for a minute that your attempted OD or anything you have said has anything to do with his threats. I can GUARANTEE that even if you NEVER attempted to OD and just happened to say you needed a break from everything and then left to stay with your friend while your husband stayed at the house that he would have STILL been making these same threats.

Your husband put himself in an uncomfortable position by having an affair and then staying at his mother's house. As soon as he got a taste of staying back at your house he got comfortable again and now doesn't want to go back to living at his mother's house or having to pay for rent to get his own apartment. He was going to THREATEN, PROTEST, or somehow push back on you coming back to the house REGARDLESS of what you did. I just don't want you to fall for any of his REASONINGS.

I think you are smart to play his game for a month. I always remember this scripture..."what the devil meant for bad, God meant for good." Even if you are not into religion, it is still true. When someone does something out of spite or with not good intentions, it always comes back to them. So if your husband is making these threats without good intentions of actually having the children's interest at heart, then it will come back to him. It is happening with my husband RIGHT now!!!


Me: 28
H: 32
1st marriage 4 both
1 1/2 year married
2gether for 9
1S: 6months
1stepson: 2yo