Why does he get to decide, when and if about disclosure? Like he has all the power on this here.
Comparing to NY- seems honestly ridiculous. Like just trying to find any reason to prove your point of view wrong.
Would he be willing to go back to MC?
He said he understands my feelings, but that he is more logical to know what I want will hurt us (he probably wants to tell me he proposed to her!!! from the way it sounds). He said lets together draw a line and not allow the past to hurt us any longer. I agreed and said right now, it i sthe present that hurts me. He said he feels I am looking for excuses to give up. I listed all the chances I have given him and asked him if he feels a person can have so much at some point and NOT any more. He agreed he has gotten away with a lot.
Oh why, b/c he is so d@mn insightful? This is a line of b@ll, IMO.
I probably am really upsetting the people who post here and perhaps you also. If you want me to stop give the word and I will respect that and stop.
I honestly am rooting for you and your happiness. I don't want to be a hindrance.
Last edited by june72; 03/31/1003:01 PM.
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
