I have talked to a couple lawyers, and they do say it's very possible that he will get tempary custody of the kids for what I did, with the OD. My therpist and lawyers suggested I play his game for a month like he has asked, so I can get back in the house with the kids. That is what I'm going to do, and than I will sign D papers, so that he will no longer have a say with custody or the house.

He has gone to far. An affair I could forgive, but threating me with my kids I can not.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10