mza8,

Nice interaction with W last night. I particularly like what you said here: I stopped her and said it's none of my business but that she could have been honest with me as I am being honest with her. I told her that she doesn't owe me any explanation and I thought it was good she was living with her parent's.

My W felt as if I was controlling her. Two weeks ago she asked if she could drop the kids off early on Saturday b/c she had plans to go out to the spa with our neighbor, I told her thatshe didn't have to tell me where she was going b/c it was none of my business. I think this my have scored a point for me, maybe.

Also her tellng you she has seen changes is a huge plus!
Thank her for noticing and let her know you feel great aboout them.

Keep it up, maybe the spring weather is starting to warm the WAW's hearts. cool


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