Okay, not sure what it will do if anything but I created an id for a friend and emailed the suggested email. I didn't want to actually let anyone know yet.
That's what I was suggesting -- didn't have to be a real person, BWP, that's up to you.
Yes, this is a long pass, but I think you're at that stage. I'm sure others will chime in lamenting the "game-playing," but let's face it, a certain amount of "game-playing" is at the core of all male-female interaction anyway! Add in the fact that you're fighting for your marriage, and is this REALLY any different than "looking good and smelling good" and heading to a bookstore, and letting them think you've got a date???
