I agree. We have a saying around here, Formerly -- it was made up by Coach and a guy named Mulesqb (you'd be wise to look up his old posts and threads when you get a chance, btw -- great, great stuff). The phrase is "Strength and Honor."
My W was trying to login into my MSN account earlier. I found out and changed the password.
I guess she definitely knows about what's happening in OM's house and is trying to find how much do I actually know.
Still no calls/msgs from her to me.
I would go through and change all your passwords. During the separation with my xw, she was able to check my business account and then have a weekend or two with her enabling best friend on me. Imagine how angry I was to see she had spent $400 in an hour on nothing. I also set my bank accounts to give me alerts.
I wouls suspect your W will change her passowrds now, so get whatever info you can ASAP.
On a side note....my wx still tries to take money from me! I caught ger last month trying to take $5 from my personal account! Her boyfriend doesnt have a job, so I guess every little bit helps!
Formerly SGfan M:38 W:33 M:8 yrs T:10 yrs Bomb: Dec '08 Separated: 4/18/09 Divorce: 8/28/09 XW Affair began: April 08