It does take 2 to make a marriage work. It almost like Kalni's feelings and thought are invalid and wrong to her hubby.

Maybe I am getting it all wrong.

Kalni,
I think the way you feel is valid and 100% justified, IMO.


I think he is incapable of doing his part to get this marriage on track... I mean he doesn't even really acknowledge issues.

I feel like mean b@tch for saying that. I am so sorry.


You deserve better then this continued turmoil.

M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)