There is a thread over in surviving where even though she is divorced, she is wrapped up in her ex and what he did TO her that she can't move forward. All that she has lost.

I tell you this with love... you will NOT be getting all the answers you want. Your H may not even know how many people knew of the A. Quit looking at every single thing as a reason to throw in the towel. If you are done, be done. If you want this marriage to start a new then start it from NOW. Put the cr@p aside. Let your barbed wire covered walls crumble.

kat


Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory