K - I completely understand where you are coming from and think you are very strong to go and keep trying. At some point, H does need to start carrying his side of the relationship. He did choose to come back so he needs to step up and give you some of what you want as well. I know you are working on yourself and trying to show H love, but now that he chose to come home, he needs to help create this new R.
Hugs!
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