I truly feel I will be ok as well. Like I've mentioned many times before, it's not being home yet that's made it so difficult.

I'm like you and my friend steady, in that I don't like the person my W has been through this. If she changed her mind as soon as I got home, I wouldn't be able to do it. I need to get over what has been said by her throughout this.

They get so wrapped up in how they feel they can't see anything else. My W has convinced herself that these things are truth, and there's absolutely no way to make them see it any other way. On top of that, I still don't know all of what's going through her mind. I get it in little bits and pieces.

I'm trying to hang in there until I'm able to get home. I wish we were all part of some support group where we could all hook up and talk.


Married 18
Me 39
W 37
D 15
D 5
Divorce Filed 8 April 2010
Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept