Wow!!! You do not let this man intimidate you!!!! Get legal advice NOW! Yeah, I am sure the judge would think he is the @ss for cheating you. I do not think he threat holds any merit.

He is threatening you- so very, very unacceptable.

Worried about the kids? That is him just spinninghis tales again. If he was worried about the kids he would end his affair.


DO NOT CAVE INTO THIS MAN NOW. IF you do it will be a huge mistake. If the lawyer states that your hubby can not file for temporary sole custody. Then move in tomorrow!!!!! OR ASAP.


AND DO NOT BE BULLIED INTO SIGNING THE D PAPERWORK! I would also let his family know of his behavior.


But most important!!! You are still giving away your power!!!!!!!!! Refuse ALL conversation with him. Walk away and got to the bathroom and lock the door. Anything. Do not let him talk to you. Or simply validate. Do the have a 2 way conversation. Let the man have a soliloquy if need be.

As soon as you allow a 2 way conversation to occur he has his hooks in you.


M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)