Al, there is no comparison of the situations. You get upset over a pic of a woman he was openly dating AFTER you two broke up. He has told you she was nothing, he has been loving and caring and all over you as well ( I've seen that with my own eyes), he PROPOSED to you for God's sake!!!
In my case, H has just been ... here and expects me to create the loving feelings to him. Which I do/did some, but getting verrry tired everytime a new little mine explodes under my feet...
Maybe I just dont love H as much as you love your BF...