wow mud that wasn't a good story to hear at all. Sorry about that man.

Surviving like I said before I would never suggest this book to her, or even tell her have it. I just think the first few chapters say allot to the one wanting the D. However, where there mind is they wouldn't see or believe anything they read.

Before I knew there was anything wrong I emailed some stuff home regarding the deployed member and the spouse. It was describing the different feelings, and she replied with "are you kidding, this doesn't apply in todays age". I knew I was on my own at that point.


Married 18
Me 39
W 37
D 15
D 5
Divorce Filed 8 April 2010
Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept