Back after 4 1/2 years of working of saving my marriage. But to no avail. We still live in the same house. She cheated on me before I went to Iraq in 2005 and I was sure she was still doing so since I got back in 2006. Three weeks ago I found out for sure that she was having an affair with the next door neighbor. Two days later she sent me an email stating she wanted us to meet with her lawyer to start divorce proceedings. Now she is hounding me to move out of the house. Need some advice. M - 48 w - 44 M - 24 years D - 19 D- 12
