Forward thank you for your reply, yes auntie is extremely sharp and continues to be very alert, she cannot believe that ex's wifey as turned ex into wot he as become, also she finds it hard that having travelling and worked all around the world that she as been ripped off by this woman, aunt still has all her wits about her, she is 84 years old this year bless her. ex did ring yesterday to speak to me, but I think that was because he couldnt get in contact with son to find out if he was going for tea, nevermind we plod on, Happy Easter folks xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx