It's so discouraging for me to be "exposed" to things that my H should have told me instead of finding out by others. H's stbXBiL came to my house last night, a LBH so devastated and unfortunately not capable of thinking clearly, very familiar state of emotions. As he was speaking, he said 'I am disappointed your H hasnt even called, 25 years I know him, since he was 14 years old. I guess it's probably because I had told my wife (h's sister) quote what are doing? Quit talking to this woman!!quote"
So there you have another big lie of the present. Not only more people knew, but his sister had become friendly, probably covering up for him by babysitting our kids so he could see her. H's BiL told me H had forbidden his sister to talk to me. She was at my house last Thursday ..., looking at me, telling me about her story.
I am disgusted with how dysfucntional this family is.I told H last night I am sick and tired of his lying. That I quit trying to trust him.
When I say disgust, I mean it. I am pondering on spending Easter away from him. He seems to NOT get what honesty is. K
