How do I expose the affair

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Thanks for the third party suggestion, unfortunately it's to late. He trapped me in a convo tonight. He said he was very concerned about having me come back in the home and taken on the responsibilities and having another breakdown. He claimed to be worried about the kids, blah blah. And he threatened me, that if I didn’t agree to at least a month of no breakdown before I move back in, he would file for emergency custody of the kids due to my OD. And before he would let me move into the house, he wanted the divorce papers signed. The nerve of this man!!!! Needless to say, I did break down and cried in front of him. I did tell him that these were his choices to not be married and be a part time dad. Anyway, I said a lot of sh&^ I shouldn’t have.

Fortunately my therapy appt was right after this. And he is a good family therapist. He helped me to calm down. And he thinks my H is threatening me because he wants the D as soon as possible, and that he is not worried about me or the kids. He also pointed out, just like all of you have, that the only chance of us ever getting back together is for me to be happy with myself. And he said he is going to help me that.

With all that said, I don’t think I do want my H back. If the man I married ever comes back maybe, but for now, I’m going ahead with the divorce for myself and my kids.