Understanding her. Accepting her. Loving her. All places to start.
The misunderstandings aren't over the simpler of the day to day stuff. They are most prominent when we are talking about detailed things, dreams, plans, responsibilities, etc.
I think her acceptance of needing to improve her English was an important and hard step for her to take this week. She is a very proud woman. That is why I think I need to take more responsibility to be patient, loving and kind with her.
I don't claim to be the clearest writer in the west, nor speaker. Misunderstandings aren't about right or wrong, which is why I need to keep trying. So does she. So solving this lingering problem is a matter of trying. Me trying to watch my reactions, and her trying to improve her language,