MLC, H and me

[courageous wife]

Thanks R2, Mila and FM! It was pretty easy to enforce that one boundary I set! HA! Not so sure how brave I would have been if I didn't have my L doing the dirty work for me but guess it is a step in the right direction!

Yes, Mila...I cannot keep tiptoeing around him! I have never been good at confrontation with anyone, I like to be liked and I don't like it when someone is upset with me....have alwayas been that way so this is big!!! i hope that you are right and that I am detaching, it does seem to be much better!!!

I just hate it that the kids are asking questions now that dad's hot rod is gone! I have a feeling that I am going to be the one to tell them about the D. I think that is why H got defensive the first time I asked him about talking to them...he is a chicken s#@t!!! They will have to be told soon!!!

BTW-I decided to not ask H here for Easter dinner!