Is English your first language? I ask because you seem to have many problems communicating with your W due to language barriers but I must say the way you express yourself is often difficult to follow. Obviously people communicate best via different mediums but the way you present your thoughts, to me, are often very, very unclear and almost garbled. I am not attacking you but I understand English just fine and I have trouble understanding you. If your W is not versed in communicating in English I can see why she has the trouble she does when talking to you.
I guess I have to ask... if this has been such a source of frustration for you when have you not attempted to learn the language she speaks?
Maybe this is just what I am taking away but you allude almost daily that your W is stupid and unattractive to you. You seem to crave sexuality and intellect from her and it sounds like, from what you describe, that is not her.
You have made comments on other threads (not creepy) that really seem to show your desire to be with a sexy/attractive person.
I guess I am confused as to why you are trying to make this work when it seems you have so many complaints about her.
You seem filled with disdain she could not even finish a simple test. Could you finish a test in her language without problems? If so then please pardon me but it seems you want her to meet your standards of intelligence and sexiness but do you meet hers?
I am really curious about all of this. I have tried to make sense of this for a while now and I come up short each time. If you knew your W had so many language barriers, which IMO would lead to comprehension issues when you can't even understand fully the language, how did you think an English speaking R weekend would help and not frustrate the both of you further?
