Originally Posted By: luvless
Ok I need people to chime in here. My best friends are giving me sh*t about going to the owh. What do you guys think? Is it at all wrong to go to him?

Does it make me look dumb?

Does it benefit me in any way?

Please...I need some input before I go through with this.


I know NOTHING about this kind of thing. But I have some general stuff to offer- First of all, you can go to him at anytime... but you can't take it back once you do- so that's something to consider. You can take a little time if you want. I'm not sure how it benefits you, truly. It probably would feel good momentarily to feel like someone is on your side or in your same boat (That's IF he even believes/ acknowledges what's going on- he might not, which might feel worse). But later? I don't know if it would really help you out past that short term feeling.

What exactly is your friend saying to you, I'm just curious?

Does it make you look dumb? To whom? Do you care? Honestly, if it were me, I'd be tempted to contact him, too, but it would be more for that short term satisfying feeling of getting back at him by exposing it. I don't know that it would help in the long run. Sorry I don't have more specific advice, but I know there are folks on here who know a lot about this. In the meantime, (((luv)))


When the men on the chessboard
Get up and tell you where to go;
And you've just had some kind of mushroom
And your mind is moving slow;
Go ask Alice...
I think she'll know.