Well last night H came to me and apologized for his behavior, said he felt guilty for what he's been putting me and our son through, said he could understand that bad position he put me in regarding moving to WA and why I would be reticent to do it considering all that's going on. He agreed to go to marriage counseling. Said he doesn't want to lose his family, doesn't want to say he didn't try. I think cold, hard reality hit him once he found out that the family knew what was going on.

I'm not doing a happy dance just yet though. It's going to take more than an evening talk to put everything to rights. I am still keeping my appt with the L and seeing the C. He's gonna have to do more than just talk, he's going to have to demonstrate the changes before I will be comfortable moving to WA.