SCh & SA I hear you...you are right. I will go and consult a lawyer before I make any final decisions on the separation agreement.
It actually took me this long to form some kind of a picture in my mind of what I need to do to move forward. Yes like many of us I realized that I can't just sit here and wait for him to wake-up and things are going to go back as they were before. No...that fantasy is over. I'm past denial and moving forward, with him or without him.
I'm also a pretty analytical type, so I want to have a clear picture in my mind as of what I want to achieve, so I don't come to the lawyer's office totally clueless.
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He started from "I'm so sorry and I'll help you financially" - actually told my parents he'd make me rich, lol
SCH - mine promises the same and he said to me that by next year we are going to be making $50,000 a month - yet another new business idea. They seem to have lost all common sense and touch with reality. Everything is a fantasy or a dream. Anything that will make them feel better as they go through their inner struggles.
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I know zero expectations are the order for the day and every day for a long time, but in my heart I would give most anything to spend a little time alone with my H remembering how things once were
. SA - What you wrote just tugs on my heart. I'm sorry They have a head start on us with their detachment. They started detaching way before we knew anything was wrong.
Take care girls (((hugs)))
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
