as we move forward II

[mandyloo]

Snodderley, I thank you for your reply. Ex is still contacting son, in fact they have been out all day today together, no change there. What I have noticed though is ex has stopped contacting me since this blowout last week, he has gotten into the habit of texting or calling me when making any plans with son, especially when picking him up for his rugby match which was today, but no contact all week, ah well I have lived through no contact before sure I can do it again, maybe he thinks I am doing wrong by doing his old aunts shopping for her, nevermind x

[mandyloo]

Or could it be that the old place eventually selling is giving ex something to think about, and he doesnt want to speak to me due to guilt, MMMMM I wonder, we will see

[forward]

ML, I wouldn't read anything into it. Who knows what has happened.

I suspect he will be back.

Auntie sounds pretty sharp overall!

[mandyloo]

Forward thank you for your reply, yes auntie is extremely sharp and continues to be very alert, she cannot believe that ex's wifey as turned ex into wot he as become, also she finds it hard that having travelling and worked all around the world that she as been ripped off by this woman, aunt still has all her wits about her, she is 84 years old this year bless her. ex did ring yesterday to speak to me, but I think that was because he couldnt get in contact with son to find out if he was going for tea, nevermind we plod on, Happy Easter folks xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[mandyloo]

just a quick update, all seems quiet once again. thank goodness, ex phones and speaks to me but hasnt up to now mentioned me doing anything for his old aunt, not that it matters because I dont see Im doing anything wrong there. also the old home sale as fallen through and it is back on the market again. x

[BeingMe]

Wow! I wonder if they will pay x's ol' aunt back the money she leant them?

[mandyloo]

thanks for your reply BeingMe, I think you read my update wrong, the old home is back on the market the sale fell through. even if it sells I cant see them paying aunt the money back she lent them, I think aunt realises shes been robbed of her life savings, and this is the ex who would never ever loan a dollar from anyone not even me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[forward]

ML, I have a beloved aunt as well; the older folks need us and we them; they have support to offer to the generation that is squeezed!

Your R w/your X's aunt is your business, not your X's.

[BeingMe]

Hi Mandy! I did realise the sale had fallen through --- that was the "wow" part. On reflection, I see that would be very unclear to you. Sorry.

[mandyloo]

wow, I saw ex yesterday and did he look absolutely awful, a proper sad miserable old man, it was heart rendering to see him look like this, he was always so fresh faced and happy smiling go lucky sort of chap, oh dear. wifey was away for the weekend playing bingo with her buddies, ex had asked son to stay over seen as though hed be on his own, son didnt want to as he said if he does it this once he will be expected to do it when she is back, and son openly admitted that dad isnt like the man who lived with us and said he doesnt want to stay over because he doesnt belong at their home. Any how I was really shocked by how ex looked on picking son up yesterday to go for tea, as in the last few months he has been ok, yesterday we were back to no eye contact and very little conversation, son and I are going to the coast tomorrow with my parents and siblings, this is something ex used to enjoy. he again asked where we were going and how we were getting there, what dates we go and come back, he must of asked me the dates now at least 20 times no joking and still gets them wrong. so what can I say, it was a shock he looked a proper unhappy chappy and really down and distraught. not a nice site but not my problem, jollys here I come. x