You are welcome. I agree with all what you say. I am so disgusted by my wife that part of me literally hates this woman that I want my future to be with. I am sorry a little off topic. I do not understand how the WAS treat the person they married and shared so much with so terribly. I guess that is why people like you and I will never be like them. Like I try to do is wake up and know I am still able to look in the mirror and be glad I am not like they are.
You keep up the positive attitude alright!
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H hasn't said a peep to me in 6 days and he emailed me his itinerary with "for tomorrow" ...ick I'm disgusted. It will be the first time I won't be picking him up at the airport.
I dread him coming home tomorrow. To look at his lying face and stay positive when I know what is around the corner? ugh so hard you guys!
Ok here's my 3 things...
1 - work out 2 - going to book store for coffee and reads 3 - out to dinner with a friend (looking forward to this)
Keep me in your prayers I'll be needing them this upcoming week!
Luv
M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10
H hasn't said a peep to me in 6 days and he emailed me his itinerary with "for tomorrow" ...ick I'm disgusted. It will be the first time I won't be picking him up at the airport.
I dread him coming home tomorrow. To look at his lying face and stay positive when I know what is around the corner? ugh so hard you guys!
Hey Luvless- I'm catching up on all your updates now. I'm glad you're not picking him up- let him find his own way home. Can you arrange to not be home and take kids somewhere when he gets there? Do some shoring up of your soul and resolve before you go home to face him.
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Ok here's my 3 things...
1 - work out 2 - going to book store for coffee and reads 3 - out to dinner with a friend (looking forward to this)
Keep me in your prayers I'll be needing them this upcoming week!
Excellent! I have to say that I do agree with Gucci on this one. You've taken so much crap, it's time to step up and lead by example and throw him out. Just my humble opinion :-). And I'll bet it gets easier like you said, the worse he gets. Until he proves he can treat you a heck of a lot better, maybe he just doesn't deserve your attention or to be under your roof in your presence. Hang in there-
When the men on the chessboard Get up and tell you where to go; And you've just had some kind of mushroom And your mind is moving slow; Go ask Alice... I think she'll know.
It's nice to see you here. I appreciate the input. I'm trying to detach it's been the hardest part. I know it's time to step on and that's what I am going to do.
2 of my 3 things got cut today....had some stuff come up I have to deal with plus friend called to cancel - bummer.
Oh well..looks like I'll put on a fire (it's one of those cool gray days) and watch a good movie after making my kids a good dinner.
Trying to stay positive ...
Luv
M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10
It's nice to see you here. I appreciate the input. I'm trying to detach it's been the hardest part. I know it's time to step on and that's what I am going to do.
i need to learn to put people's threads (rather than their user names) on my watch list, b/c it is taking me forever to find people's own sitches
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2 of my 3 things got cut today....had some stuff come up I have to deal with plus friend called to cancel - bummer.
Oh well..looks like I'll put on a fire (it's one of those cool gray days) and watch a good movie after making my kids a good dinner.
Trying to stay positive ...
It sounds like you're doing really well at staying positive. I'm glad that you had 3 things planned, even if you didn't get to do all of them. The point is you would've if you could've. I'm so jealous you have a real fireplace. Our rental house has a fake one that is useless and the only one I had was in our burned house that I will probably never move back to. So please enjoy the fire (and maybe a glass of wine?) doubly for me!
I don't know you really well yet, but it seems to me that you are finding a lot of strength within yourself right now. I really admire you for it, and for making hard decisions that need to be made in your best interest, to take care of yourself. Keep us posted.
(((luv)))
When the men on the chessboard Get up and tell you where to go; And you've just had some kind of mushroom And your mind is moving slow; Go ask Alice... I think she'll know.
