(((H4L))) I'm glad that you're finding a new IC. I think it's really worth tackling those issues head on. I realize that I'm going to have to do that too.
About MC...I think you just have to go there really grounded in who you are and your own experience of this. I think his main responsibility to you right now is to clearly communicate what he wants...but I don't know if he'll be able to do that.
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me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
