You are a very dedicated family man and professional. You're the Dad, you're the Doc. Not wanting to be 'out there' is probably consistent whether you're married or not. You sound like a man with personal standards. Even though I've heard that those in the medical field can be pretty bawdy.
Then again, I don't really know how guys think all that well since hearing that every 7 seconds the "sex" pops into their consciousness. Probably more often with ninja skills added to it!
It's a shame that the love of your children isn't as highly regarded by the court, and that potential earnings outweigh your compassion and skill as a surgeon.
You're the man. Keep your head up! And you're wonderful.
