NOt to borrow trouble from the future, but I can really imagine a scenario in which H does NOT move forward towards adulthood again but instead hides out at home getting mothered there and then coming over to your house to get mothered by you. What can you do not to be a part of that but still stay open to rebuilding R?
Wow, rr22. Excellent question. This will require some serious introspection. Any and all suggestions accepted.
