I wouldnt worry about it too much...Maybe I should though...oh well.
No worries about telling her about OM's dark side-
Sure its not what she would want to hear, BUT Allen stresses that a LBH stress the dangers / "certainty" pf an A failing- so that you cannot be blamed for co-signing---also should OM resort to his past darkness, at least you lovingly warned W.
Should she move- Sandi is correct, STAND BY IT- do not let her back, no matter what...only on your terms.
My W moved in and out several times...it hurt every time to watch her leave again.
Just be strong and know that it's the right thing to do...you cant make her want to stay, but if she's disrespecting the M...she shouldn't be there...
She'll prob pack EVERYTHING to make a statement...my W was leaving for a weekend and she packed 4 suitcases- naturally I said WTF and cried like a baby...she was back 2 days later...then came home drunk a few days after that saying, "I just can't do it."
Eff them... there will be mind games and mind F*(^s...you are SUPERCOOL w/ all of them
And if not- thats the way to act as if...
They are confused, you are not...they want validation for leaving...just dont give it to her
