Young @ H, I hope goalie is reading all these comments. Very helpful. Gary Chapman book is excellent. My W languages are the same of your W: 80% act of service and 20% quality of time. My language is Physical Touch. I also read SSM, excellent tool. I will put in my agenda the other 4 books you mentioned above.
I'm inviting my wife to read SSM but I haven't been lucky. This one is made for her. She read The 5 Languages however. As of matter of fact she read it first, approx. 4 years ago and then she put it in the toilet, in my night stand, in my tool box, and I never paid attention to it.
About foot rub and massage, its part of our live 4 to 5 times a week. But guess what, I'm the one geting sexually arroused just by touching her precious body. She usually fell asleep and 1 out of 10 times it ended in sex. We usually do it both naked. I could be burning hard but she doesn't even let me touch her intimate parts. I tried to avoid it but its very dificult. She hit very hard ...ouch.
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Me:52 W:50 M:30 D:19S:27 Discovered EA:08/08 denied W insisted on D+ILYBNILWY:08/08 Exposed wrong OMW:10/08 Found exact OM's ID 2/09 Expose OMW son, not sure OMW knows yet 25 months after still a rollercoaster
