IDK, shouldn't I be able to talk to him about upsetting topics with out it being me "starting to cause a fight or trouble"??

I just don't know...

M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)