DG, it sounds like you're doing well with walking the line. I don't know about the dating thing. H may be assuming that I'm dating...and I don't know if that's good. It could be alienating. Gnosis recommended against "mystery" in my case. I'm really on the fence about it.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
