June, if I ever had a chance to do MC again, I would want to try Retrouvaille or a Gottman family therapist -- more focused on strategies rather than digging into underlying issues. Our MC did more damage than good. I hope that you'll get the ease that you want in your M.
Excellent point. One little add on to this, there are therapists who practice "solutions-oriented brief therapy" (the type of therapy which MWD describes in DB) who look for solutions rather than spending tons of time on past history issues. This can be an extremely effective type of therapy.
You know Erynfaye, Now that i think about it. I think our MC was solution-oriented. I realize the intent was probably good and I sure this person has worked miracles with other couples. We just seemed to be spinning wheels. Not much progress for us. Hoping the new MC is awesome. Seriously hoping.
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
