help some advice plse..have i finished it for good

[JacT]

That would get some funny looks in my neighbourhood..matching outfits..you have to laugh sometimes..!

I am sure there were some looks...I dont believe she is accepting it either out of love..she has too much of a history..taking away this man from his big house, wife and kids..makes her feel attractive..what she did to me and my kids was fundamentally wrong and whilst I can totally accept what I have done in my marriage that didnt help it, what he did was wrong too.H had the opportunity to come clean several times.

I sleep on it all tonight.Start my counselling next week.I have alot to wade through...and dont know if it is fixable..god will decide I guess..thanks and if you want to talk plse shout...lots of snow in Scotland tonight!!!!

Thanks to Saffie too.