gucci has a ton of posts with a wealth of info, I'm going to start dropping quotes on your thread, there is so much wisdom in there, make sure you soak it all up:
Originally Posted By: gucci loafer
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Ok, I didn't tell her I was dating, just talking to someone. I am so so so tempted to just blast her but I keep reading what you've wrote about not being punitive. Some else on here said living a great life was the best payback also. I want to be rational but I also want to blast her so freaking hard right now because of the way she is acting.
I don't recommend being punitive. Not necessary. I realize that you want to blast her, but that isn't rational or a good idea.
"I am kinda seeing someone. Yes I am over you and hope this gives you the closure you need. I just suddenly realized that things just were never going to work between us. I don't want to be with a woman that I don't trust or can't be true to me. I don't want to be with a woman who can't decide if she loves me or not. I am sorry that it didn't work out between us and hope that someday we can be friends."
I would think that should give you a way of "tellng her off" without it coming across as angry. I would suggest this approach because it leaves you with all the options and still gets your points across about how you feel about her behavior.
Amazing huh? Jealousy can do what no other thing can. Good job.
