I did with the last A. I have asked if he's having an A this time and he denied it. Weird as he keeps telling OW he's going to let me know, but is waiting for the right opportunity.
I am running through these fantasy conversations in my head. It's how I work things out. I keep thinking - does this sound pursuing? - but DH has a deep need to make people happy and especially his W. One thing he keeps asking OW by email is if he makes her happy. I was thinking of saying with a very nice smile on my face and pleasant demeanor - "I just want you to know that no matter what happens to us, you have made me very happy. You made me laugh, and you made me realize how precious life is. You've helped make me who I am."
