WAW and the law of attraction

[FormelyknownasF]

I know it's too soon to even ask but, I'll ask anyway.

I've been reading this book Gnosis recommended "After the affair" to try and understand what's happening to me, etc and it was really helped me. It explains really well why affair happen and why they feel the way they feel and how it's all unreal, etc. Do you think reading something like that will help her at some point to recover her sense?

At which point do you think it will be worth sharing it? (after the affair of course)
We're separated so I'd only have to order it and she'll get it.