I keep thinking "do what works." And now I have doubts that with my H it will work. I do not want to push him away. I have to seriously think about my boundaries. Again, I am not sure how much of this is "I don't want to lose" and how much is "I want this M to survive and come back." I'm seriously considering that and trying to decide if I should swallow my pride and set boundaries, or kowtow to my pride and just DB my butt off and win him back.
It's the friend thing. He's shared his friends with her, which means he's "that" close to leaving me anyway. I think Mr. Bond is right, he's doing Retro to show what a good guy he is... but I also had hoped that there would be a breakthrough he wasn't expecting. How to break through the fog, I don't know, but he's so emotional and so sensitive, I thought sharing my emotions and his with me, may help us. Geez, wouldn't it be nice if we could just ask WS what it would take to bring them back around? Maybe hypnotism?
