Other than working on GAL? How else can I get my H to see that we can make our marriage work? Our biggest problem is communication. If we could find away to get around our misunderstandings, that would help.
Have you read any of Puppy Dog Tails posts?
180's, Detachment and Boundaries are good.
What YOU can do is improve your LISTENING and VALIDATION SKILLS.
So your H has told you that he no longer wants to be married to you. Validate HIS POV. If you try and control him (IE lets stay married) you will continue to push him away.
Always run your validation statements past us first.
Our WAS don't think we can change. PROVE THEM WRONG. Project that you are always happy. Project that you are glad they set you free. Project that you are having the time of your life. Focus on all the good things in your life and you will draw more good things into your life.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
