Not much going on here. H text me yesterday and actually asked how S and I were doing. I let him know that we were good and that S is learning to ride his bike. He asked about my job. I answered and that was it. Nothing else was said and no text this morning.

S is doing well. As I said he is learning to ride his bike so that is fun. We went to the park yesterday and I am working on spring cleaning. I have already cleaned a lot so hopefully if I keep working every night I won't have to do it over spring break or at least can only do a little.

I looked at my credit card bill so far this month and it is really high for me. I thought about why and looked at it and I have the normal stuff, plus S and my easter outfits and the car fix bill from fixing the car two weeks ago so it is right where it should be, but man it was a lot. I really need to focus on saving the next few months so I am going to not get pics taken of S and I, and instead try to get someone to take some good ones of us on easter. The play set I am still going to do because I was planning on that from the tax return. I am also cutting out getting my students some cookies for Thursday. I just really have to force myself to cut back. I was doing really well, but then S needed new clothes and I wanted something nice since I haven't actually bought myself anything with my money since last year at this time so I splurged a little and then the car...urgh!

I am really doing very well. I get an extra pay this month so no worries, but wanting to start saving more so I have to start really pushing my budgets. The one year of being "single" is Thursday and it really doesn't bother me to think about. I think I have made peace with it and just think of me as being single any more.


Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
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