I dont want to be divorced. I don't want to be single.
If YOU feel this way..why then would you consider...
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should just file for divorce
The reality is that you may believe deep down inside you that by filing you will "wake her up". Look deep down in you and you will see why you are considering filing..I've made this mistake buddy. I pushed and boy did it come back and bite me in the as*. Stop looking at her - stop it! Look at your kids...look at you - really work on you and I mean really work on you. You can only do this once you stop looking at her. Let her sail in the wind buddy. You cannot control her so don't try.
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how far should I go to give it to her
How far would she give you? You expect her to see changes and accept you NOW but R u willing to give her the time she needs?
You don't want to file - you believe that you are going to get back together, then why file. Be kind, be gentle, control your emotions. Pray, but my friend do not file. Your not ready yet. You'll know when the time is right. Please DO NOT make the same mistakes I have made.
God bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
