It also proves the point that he won't be leaving his wife any time soon. Otherwise, why lie? And that's not good news for my W.
I think it is good news for your W, (not that she'll be thanking you for it any time soon ). Hopefully, your actions have prevented her from becoming further involved with a guy who is lying to her and stringing her along. Now maybe, she will have a shot at mending her marriage to a good man.
I know it's too soon to even ask but, I'll ask anyway.
I've been reading this book Gnosis recommended "After the affair" to try and understand what's happening to me, etc and it was really helped me. It explains really well why affair happen and why they feel the way they feel and how it's all unreal, etc. Do you think reading something like that will help her at some point to recover her sense?
At which point do you think it will be worth sharing it? (after the affair of course) We're separated so I'd only have to order it and she'll get it.
Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *
Formerly, I've been following your sitch. I don't have much else to offer you, as you have the best people giving you advice on how to deal with your sitch. I did want to tell you how impressed I am with the way you have conducted yourself. Absolutely tremendous job! I applaud you! Keep up the good work! You're fighting for your marriage, well done.
M 38 WAW 36 Together 19 years Married 12 years Bomb/Separated Oct. 09 I love my wife Sitch