Thanks Allen. What do you think about the whole "H runs from problems and if I take away all his support he'll only run to her" thing? To be honest, that was one thing I really worried about.
Looking back at the last time, I did a total DB as best as anyone could. I KNEW the whole time that we were going to make it through. What worries me the most is that he's introduced her to his friends. That's how he brought me into his life. However, he's still planning on going to Retro, so it's weird.. either he doesn't want to "hurt" me or he wants to look like he tried everything. However, the nice girl thing did work for me before.
Worried about it backfiring, and now I'm more worried about it. He is not able to handle conflict at all, but then again, he has that deep need to be respected and admired by friends and family, so that may be a heavy thing also. Oh, I'm going crazy.
