No, I am not proposing you file. Let her be, as hard as it may be to do. The goal right now is for you to achieve stability in YOUR life. There's nothing you can do about hers. You can't figure it out for her and you can't change where she's gotten herself at the moment.
You know like any other perplexing, puzzling task: the more you dauntly try to solve it, the more frustrated and less focused you become. Then you walk away from it for a bit, look again, and the answer was right there the whole time.
The bonus is, you go about your life to the best of your ability without (as hard as it may be) waisintg all your time and energy on this. Your W will see that and question, why does he get to happy? Why aren't I?
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
