The CD isn't what caused his MLC. He's in depression and probably
"Yes there were times I shot him down. It devestated him when I left him all those years ago and I used it to my advantage throught out the M."
This is what caused his depression and what you have to accept. You have to create an environment for him that's "safe" where he feels he won't be judged and can be who he wants to be. It comes down to whether or not you can accept who he is or if he is willing to change.
He's dealing with alot of shame and embrassment right now, so he needs that safe environment to come home to. That's probably why he doesn't want to see his Ds as well. He may not feel that he is "masculine" enough to be a role model for them.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.